We must always ask ourselves "Do I allow others to influence my decision making?"
Well, of course I do NOT! We all have the privilage of having our own mindset. And I do listen to all sides of the story, However I am my own person with my own beliefs. I am a judgement free zone.
I decided along time ago that my voice needed to be heard and to only use my voice for positive speaking. Now do not get me wrong, it is really hard to be a posititive voice ( I mean people say things that you do not agree with) However, I do not allow their voices to overpower mine. I am not afraid to speak my mind and I do not allow a "closed" minded person to influence me.
Having a positive mindset is key and it is up to you to change your mindset. (But How?)
It starts with being you. analizing your own beliefs and not comparing yourself to others. Believing in you is crucial for a positive mindset. Understanding that we are allowed to grow from the inside out and we should embrace that! Taking the time to forgive yourself and others so you can find the strength to grow and move on. I truly believe that we are not put on this earth to be unhappy and it is completely up to us to seek our happiness. And Noone has the power to stop you BUT YOU. So Why do you stop yourself?
well, to be honest I did hide myself from being happy until I forgave and moved on from what was holding me back. I continue to keep moving forward and I Stay in my own LANE!!!